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by sherrybaby from Solon

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Well, I've made the decision to go back to work.  Not like some of you moms but part time.  Actually, even less than part time.  I was working at my daughters school as a lunch monitor for 2 years. Acutally, 3 years one year was just subing.  After I had Stevie I was off for 6 months. School started back up in September and I went back. At that time my husband was suppose to be working from home.  He started just taking care of the baby and doing housework (which was nice) but he stopped doing his job.  He still gets paid because he gets a residual check from what he does. But i was extremely jealous that I had to leave the house and be away from my baby while he did what I felt I should be doing.  So we discussed it and I dropped to a sub again.  Well, he started going to an office and doing his job for a few months but now he's back home.  He's promising he's going to continue to do his job from here.  We'll see! So anyhow, I don't think it's healthy to be together 24/7 so I decided to go back just 3 days a week. I only work for 2 1/2 hours and if he does what he says I'll be happy.  I have to admit, it is nice to feel you have some other importance in life other than a mom and wife.  I love the kids at the school and they seem to love me, I get lots of hugs when I go in.  It's so nice!  I use to be a secretary before kids but this job works out great, I'm off when the kids are off and I get the whole summer off!  Can't beat that! So starting next week, back to work I go.

 

Sherry

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klh1886 read my blog view my photos
Feb 23, 2007 | 9:28 AM

I worked part time when my kids were home. Me working was strictly to pad the budget. With this being said, it sounds like you have a little battle of the sexes going on. You said you were jealous of your husband being able to be home doing what you felt you should be home doing. Well I can understand that. Me personally: I would not want my husband being home doing the house work and taking care of the children. Not to say he couldn't but I feel that's my job. Personally I feel men want to work (most of them) We still are in an age where a man's job and productivity defines who they are. I know there are some out there who dissagree. I don't think my husband would be to keen on me being the bread winner. I know my neighbor had a problem with his wife making more than he did. I'm just from the old ways.

girlscout read my blog view my photos
Feb 23, 2007 | 9:54 AM

It's true - no matter how much you love yur spouse and kids, one does get a sense of appreciation and satisfaction from outside activities. When my kids were small I did volunteer work for Girl Scouts as a Girl Scout Leader and an administrative position. It got me out of the house and talking to other adults - some of who are still my friends to this day. Getting away from home gives you that breathing space that makes you a better parent when you return!

klh1886 read my blog view my photos
Feb 23, 2007 | 10:33 AM

Well I know there's another comment here but I can't see it.

sherrybaby read my blog view my photos
Feb 23, 2007 | 12:59 PM

Thanks girls! It's nice to know others understand. I guess alot of it's because I stayed home for 9 years w/my older kids and therefore I feel that's my thing. I'm the mom and wife, not him. lol!

Sherry

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I'm a sahm of 3. I have my son Trent who's 11, my daughter Taylor who's 10 and our BIG surprise of 2006 Stevie Nicole who's 11 months. I like to exercise and spend time w/my family. When traveling w/my husband our favorite place to go is Las Vegas. When traveling w/the kids we love Niagara Falls!

Member Since: 2/6/2007