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by m-tru from madison, OH

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How come people who need disability can't get it but people who have no business on it are? I know a woman who said her dad raped her as a child but only said that because her dad was fighting her mom for custody because the mother was extremely unfit.Her mother and granmother told her (at 14) that if she told the courts he raped her then she wouldn't have to move in with her dad. She did and her dad completely washed his hands of her because he couldn't believe what had happened. So she grew up watching her mom drink,do drugs, and have so many men in and out of the house that she can't even recall all their names but the grandma was happy because she only lived a mile away and was the one that they all relied on.She even watched her grandma jump out of a car because she had got so drunk. Then at 21 yrs old she decided she didn't want to work anymore and her grandma,her mom and her conjured this plan up and called 911 and told them she took a bottle of pills and was going to kill herself. The ambulance rushed her to the hospital, pumped her stomach (which they didn't know was gonna happen) and sent her to Laurelwood for 2 weeks. And guess what she got?? Disability. They said she was too unstable to work. For the lasr 11 yrs she has recieved her check at the beginning of the month, and in the mix had two children to up the money she got.She stopped after the second because they said it would stay that amount even if she had a third. So she had her tubes tied...thank god. If she is too unstable to work than how in the heck does children services let her keep her children???Someone please explain this to me. She get's a $1300.00 , full insurance and all these places pay her bills and send her $200 food vouchers every two weeks, Plus she works under the table at a bar (up until 4 months ago when she quit). She has a better life than most of us could even imagine. She owns two houses!! One in which I and my husband have been buying for 4 yrs (money she never reported to disability). We have completely gutted and remodeled everything, but because I refused to watch her kids anymore because she would never come pick them up, now me and my husband have been fighting in courts (paying massive attorney fees) to try keep our house because she has refused to take the payments..even when we have sent them certified the post office returned them because she denied them.  It makes you wonder in life..why be a good hardworking American?? I like to know what your thoughts are?

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klh1886 read my blog view my photos
Feb 26, 2007 | 9:20 AM

Yes it's true. Drug and alcohol abuse is considered a disease. Very annoying that we have to pay for this kind of crap! Have you called on her? Or maybe call the I team or something. As long as she refuses payments she has a leg to stand on in court. She has to refuse payment. I'm sure her attorney told her that. Being a bum certainly does pay!

m-tru read my blog
Feb 26, 2007 | 9:28 AM

but that's just it..she don't do drugs and she sure isn't an alcoholic just a bum..she is suppose to be under 24 hr supervision around her kids because she is so called suicidal but she isn't and never is supervised.she's just a bad mom. In the stipulations from disbility she is suppose to see a shrink once a week...she has seen a shrink in over 4 1/2 yrs. so who is handling her case and letting it slide. I have left messages with disability but nothing ever happens, she gets no phone calls or letters..nothing.It's like her caseworker just doesn't care.

klh1886 read my blog view my photos
Feb 26, 2007 | 9:32 AM

Like I said being a bum pays. The social workers are not interested in her. They probably write reports every month about there fictional visits. They don't want to work either!

m-tru read my blog
Feb 26, 2007 | 9:33 AM

and on the payments..we have all of them and we have a contract..just ridiculous it's costing all this money in attorney fees.

m-tru read my blog
Feb 26, 2007 | 9:34 AM

I know it's ridiculous...just like in the gravelle trial..the caseworkers should be fired and sent to jail.

klh1886 read my blog view my photos
Feb 26, 2007 | 9:45 AM

I have found thru out the years that generally a contract is worthless. It's only good until you need it to stand up in court. The judge has no problems changing the rules as he goes. It plumps up the bank accounts. I think if they would change the law to hold the loosing side accoutable for all fees including attorneys it would curb that problem to.

m-tru read my blog
Feb 26, 2007 | 10:01 AM

Ya but she tried to say in the papers filed that we won't make payments...so our attorney has all the certified letters with the payments and they are all sealed still so the judge can open them.

klh1886 read my blog view my photos
Feb 26, 2007 | 10:19 AM

Did you at any time not make a peyment or be late? If not, then don't worry. Have you put in a counter claim for attorney fees?

klh1886 read my blog view my photos
Feb 26, 2007 | 10:40 AM

Have you been late or not made a payment? If not I wouldn't worry. Have you filed a counter claim for attorney fees?

m-tru read my blog
Feb 26, 2007 | 12:26 PM

The attorney said neither side can sue for attorney fees. But we can sue her for everything we have put in here for the last 4 yrs. and the contract does make a big difference cause she even went as far as saying we were only renters and if it weren't for the contract we would have been screwed in August when she duck taped an eviction to our door that she typed herself..she couldn't even spell. The only payment she can say anything about was when we were doing even up for me to babysit her kids but I have proof of that to in the receipt for the month before that and on every receipt she wrote "house payment" not rent and I have numerous witnesses that will testify that I always had the girls and the bus even dropped the 7 yr old off at my house on the days she worked and on the days noone was home at her house..which she was she would just be sleeping. All the kids on the bus make fun of her daughter because she smells all the time. Me and another neighbor tried to tell her but she is just too lazy to give her kids a bath and her grandma used to do that but she passed away almost a year ago.She's just a loser who has had everything handed to her.Her grandmother bought this place 14 yrs ago for her so she'd only be a mile away. Sadly I used to think of her as my sister. Her kids are my god daughters but she has stripped them away too. Her ex boyfriend brought them to see us and she told him if he did again he wouldn't see his kids again so I haven't seen them in 8 months. I don't understand at all how she still has these kids. We can hear them crying from our house...unfort

butterflykisses427 read my blog view my photos
Feb 26, 2007 | 2:55 PM

It is a shame that it no longer pays to be a hard working citizen. I think it is sad that we reward lying and laziness. Stories like this make me wonder why the heck I work my butt off to be honest. Hard work and dedication is no longer the American dream. Cheating the system is the way to go.

klh1886 read my blog view my photos
Feb 26, 2007 | 3:16 PM

I really don't know what to say. Except try to get childrens sevices involved if you feel they're needed. Be careful concerning your contracts. Like I said the judge will do with it as he pleases regardless of what it says. We had a court case too. When it was over we had to pay for all types of things that we should not have according to our contract. But because we were more able to pay they stuck it to us. Don't bother reporting her to the school. Schools do not want to get involved. Good luck.

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