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In reference to Bill Martin’s “Last One Please Turn Out the Lights”  - as typical in these situations where blacks and whites are concerned, the ignorant bigots like Bill Martin and his followers come out and want to start talking about crime and people leaving the city.   Let them go – as if  them damn vanilla suburbs are such crimeless havens and bastilles of moral decency. The wealth is there and that’s all.  The absence of ethics and moral fiber is just as bad – if not worst – than in the city. White people carry on about the crimes of other ethnic groups as if they don’t have the propensity for crime – what a laugh. Crime doesn’t matter until they become a victim and for some reason it takes on “added” meaning if the culprit is of  “another race.” 

 

Self-righteous Bill and his racist media-cohorts growled and scowled through the Jessie Davis/Bobby Cutts tragedy – but notice how low-key they became when the Penoit murder/suicide (this is the rich white guy that killed his wife, young son, and then himself) flashed across the TV screens of America.   I don’t’ care what the “stats” are -  white people commit far too much crime to be color-coating it by race.  

As I said in a previous blog – as an African-American female I didn’t have a problem with the councilman’s actions.  After reading the blogs though, I am now reconsidering my stance.   As I noted before, how many other delinquents – black, white, Hispanic, etc., received such letters?  And if white folks are so gung-BLEEP about crime, WHY haven’t their councilpersons sent letters to the white thugs in their communities?  There have certainly been enough of them in the news lately.  WHY all of a sudden is this white councilperson being held up as some sort of great white super hero and the mother under attack? 

 

When I was in college, a white FBI agent told me and another classmate that when the powers-that-be really get serious about gun control and drug dealing (as well as other crimes) in this country – it won’t be the poor black boys on the corner and other minorities that fill up the jails – it will be rich white males and the crime syndicates they back.

I think Bill Martin, this councilman, and other whites need to be careful where they throw their race-biased stones. They, as well as others, better learn to take a more constructive and humane approach to the delinquent behavior of minority teenagers as historically has been done for white delinquents.   If they can’t, they’re the ones playing the race card, not African-Americans.

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Erock327 read my blog
Jul 23, 2007 | 3:56 PM

How the hell is Bill Martin a racist for basically pointing out that 1) Cleveland has a crime problem, and 2) more people are moving OUT of town than into it.....?

I don't see where race comes into that, and both happen to be true. Maybe if you look at the words actually used instead of digging for an alterior (racial) intent, you'll see that it sounds a bit silly to label Mr. Martin that way.

Erock327 read my blog
Jul 23, 2007 | 3:58 PM

It was the mother of the drug dealer who brought race into this whole scenario.

lovelyhoney read my blog
Jul 23, 2007 | 4:10 PM

No, I'm sorry. The councilman did when he started the name calling in the letter. The mother did what every mother does - right or wrong - fight for her child (and I do disagree with her stance). I agree with some of the other posts though - he could've handled it much better seeing how he is a public official. If a black councilperson sent that type of letter to a white juevenile, you white people would be calling for his or her resignation.

As for Bill, I call it as I see it (I used to be a fan...not anymore).

coyotedave read my blog view my photos
Jul 23, 2007 | 4:53 PM

I noticed in your bio that your pet peeve was narrow minded people. Look in the mirror lately?

klh1886 read my blog view my photos
Jul 23, 2007 | 5:11 PM

I have to disagree with this poster. I do not see how this came about. Cleveland is full of crime. I don't believe Cleveland has a racial problem I believe it's a cultural problem, and it's not just Cleveland. Race has nothing to do with it. This thug culture is within all races. I personally feel that all races are tired of this culture. According to everything I've heard concerning this situation this counselman has dealt with this boy on several occasions. I'm sure he might have been able to be a little more civil in his letter but it seems to me that he also had enough. I read the letter and It is obvious that this counselman was highly frustrated. It is extremely difficult to deal with these young people. They seem to have a death wish. They seem to be unreachable, and it's also obvious that these kids parents have either given up or never started. There are far to many parents out there that are very weak minded when it comes to there children, and it shows. Shame on these parents for not doing what it takes to get there children to safety, and a life that can give them the opportunity (if they'll take it) to make something of themselves.

lovelyhoney read my blog
Jul 23, 2007 | 5:13 PM

Coyotedate -

Yes I have and I'm quite happy with what I see. And my blog obviously hit a nerve with you and others like yourself. Get over it!

This is exactly why I am NOW against the councilman's action's - it panders to the bigots like yourself! You don't come to the table with solutions, just more of your racist bull#*!%

lovelyhoney read my blog
Jul 23, 2007 | 5:27 PM

khlh1886:

How do you or anyone else know that the mother has not tried to discipline her son? She has said publicly that he is no saint. He is an 18 year old manchild and will do as he well pleases when out of the site of mother - as most 18 years old will.

...and since you all are so bent on making the mother accountable for his actions, why didn't the councilperson try to get a hold of the mother first before resorting to this?

I'm not saying the mother is handling this situation with her son very well - but neither is this councilperson. As I said before - I once thought so, but when I see the venom directed at the mother and the situation as a whole - no way. It could've and should've been handle another way.

Zeeball read my blog view my photos
Jul 23, 2007 | 5:36 PM

Nowhere in Bill Martins post was race mentioned. Nowhere in Mike Polenik's letter was race mentioned or racial slurs used. The people of Ward 11 have congradulated him. They believe in him and they believe he did what the mayors office isn't doing, making crime a priority. Nice doesn't work. And what is wrong with people moving to the suburbs because Cleveland has nothing to offer? Because they want a better education for their kids. They want to be safe. Did Mike or Bill say that white people don't commit crimes? Your way out of line. Two people that have spoken up to try and help the city of Cleveland and you are labeling them as racist? Its people like you that prevent minorities from moving forward..

klh1886 read my blog view my photos
Jul 23, 2007 | 5:38 PM

well I base my decision on the mothers reactions, who she has tried to bring in to deal with it, and for the lack of her real concern for the trouble her son is in. Her son did not become this thug over night. He grew into it. With the mothers knowledge. The mother always knows. Maybe not everything but enough to know when something needs to be done. Also that she still lives in a bad neighborhood with her child who is now an adult. I have been in a poverty situation myself with a child. I worked three jobs. Almost round the clock to get out of that. I worked jobs that I was able to take my child with me to all the jobs. I worked a lot and worked hard so my child would not be living in a poverty, drug stricken neighborhood. So I know If I could do it, these mothers who claim poorness can to. Also this counselman did talk to the mom. He spoke of it in his letter.

peeved read my blog
Jul 23, 2007 | 8:05 PM

your damned if you do and damned if you don't theres never going to be a right answer, your never going to make everyone happy, your never going to do the right thing no matter which way you go. you will never get the black and white race to see eye to eye. even if the two races were completely separated by a ocean it would always be the other races fault.
So Boo Hoo Get over it. Get a Life.

So someone needs to stand up and take charge.
and say that we are not going to put up with crime anymore (from any race)
Regardless of who cries about what. its just too bad, grow up and get over it.
If everyone joins forces it WILL WORK. even if we have to take extreme measures.
SEND THE MESSAGE "We will NOT Stand for it anymore.
your going to get cry babies and tree huggers
But Gangs and Thugs got to move out of town.
in America you shouldn't have to worry about stepping out your door at anytime of the day.

CAKhomelodge read my blog view my photos
Jul 23, 2007 | 8:29 PM

where ever there are people, human beings, or races, you will find a problem and many many more. Being black,white, red, yellow or brown is not what make people good/bad- it is a very ugly groweth we are all cursed with it is SIN, disobedience, selfishness///and so on. Jesus came to save ALL peoples from this cancer- we all have. He did'nt come for just one race He came for us all. He said he came as the great physician to heal the "sick" well we're all sick with sin, we're all guilty. Just take 10 minutes & read the ten commandments ( be honest with yourself) and write down the one (or ones) you have never broken. then read Matthew 22: 35-40. Concerning the Councilman. He's right. It is past time that we need to stand against the wicked ACTS of men, women, & children, it is not about race, or color of one's skin.

Wernerd630 read my blog view my photos
Jul 23, 2007 | 8:32 PM

quit defending the thug (oops, did I say that out loud?)

Wernerd630 read my blog view my photos
Jul 23, 2007 | 10:04 PM

p.s.- you are obviously not very educated for even writing this blog. Think before you type. And we didn't even get upset about the "vanilla" remark. You are a racist!!

spike717
Jul 23, 2007 | 10:53 PM

I find it amazing that you want to call people racist for stating facts.Even the people in that neighborhood want out.One way to fight crime is to come together,not call people names.

Wernerd630 read my blog view my photos
Jul 23, 2007 | 10:57 PM

You still don't need to utter racist insults. There are plenty of thugs here, black, white and mexican alike.

gamer173 read my blog view my photos
Jul 24, 2007 | 5:47 AM

lol just another racist blog,just keep typing it shows your ignorance so we don't have to point it out.

survivormom read my blog view my photos
Jul 24, 2007 | 8:05 AM

School counseling??? Hope you are not working in the "vanilla suburbs"!!!
How can someone with your soon to be (cough cough) profession talk like that? And we wonder why there is still a problem with racism in this world. It's getting sooooooooo old and boring!

lovelyhoney read my blog
Jul 24, 2007 | 8:07 AM

Racist! HA! You folks get funnier and funnier. You all calling someone racist is a joke. These and all other blogs on this topic show it! Everytime a black person points out the errors of "your" ways you get angrier than hell. Good!

My white collegues here in the office have asked me to brIng up this point (and they point out that not one of you have addressed the issues in my blogs on this topic - NOT ONE) - they have noted that you yahoos (their name for you not mine) wouldn't be of the same opinion if some black councilperson or Al Sharpton sent a nasty letter like that to one of YOUR little white juvenile deliquents. YOU would dawn your hoods and sheets and form a lynch mob.

Yes, the black residents of that neighborhood as well as other inner-city neighborhoods want help fighting crime - and have been doing it for years. But in time, they'll come to understand - just like I did - that this councilperson is not the answer. His actions are personal (has had 4 vans stolen) and in the long run serve only to polarize Cleveland (like Cleveland can stand to be polarized any further)and in the end will probably cost Cleveland a law suit...OH YEAH...MAMA GONNA SUE!

Rigt or wrong public officials can't go around sending threatening letters to people. There are legal ways to handle thugs and when YOU self-righteous, holier-than-thou phony white people start using these same tactics on YOUR white thugs - THEY DO EXIST - give me a call.

survivormom read my blog view my photos
Jul 24, 2007 | 8:29 AM

That was the whole reason the letter was publicized to begin with...."MAMMA GONNA SUE". Now that her little thug is 18 she can't use the money to pay her bills because now he can go to jail instead of hiding behind the juvenile system.
This letter was in no way threatening. And this "yahoo" would not be offended if my son was to receive a letter like this because if I can't teach him right from wrong then I would welcome the help from outsiders.
Why has no-one else come forward with their letters from this same counsilman? Maybe because they know he's right!! It all boils down to what you said..."MAMMA WANTS TO SUE", nice way to teach your child another easy way out of earning a hard living!!!!

lovelyhoney read my blog
Jul 24, 2007 | 8:56 AM

"Now that her little thug is 18 she can't use the money to pay her bills"...

I'm assuming you mean that she's on welfare - which she probably isn't - but for some reason - YOU SEEM TO KNOW THIS about this single black mother. Amazing.

Keeps getting funnier and funnier with you folks...but you're not racist...not by a long shot.

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lovelyhoney

I am a former secretary/business instructor. I am currently finishing up my graduate program for school counseling. I love children (all ages) - especially my nieces and nephews. I enjoy planting flowers and working in the yard. I love home improvement TV shows - my favorite is Flip This House and Trading Spaces and I am a Sopranos junky going through withdrawal. My pet peeve: Narrowminded people.

Member Since: 7/20/2007