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You've made some great points too, lovelyhair! But I do feel bad for Bobby's mom. I'm sure she did not raise him to be a killer, this is terribly hard for her also, you could see that in court. But I will always say, Bless the Davis family for you are right, they have to go to a cemetary! This is so terrible and sad!

You are all correct, both families have and always will suffer. As a parent you love your kids unconditionally but Bobby's family especially his mom and dad will never look at him the same way. It's bad enough he killed Jessie, but he also killed their grandbaby and that is something I don't ever think they will be able to forgive or forget. Everytime they look at Blake or one of the other kids they will think of Chloe and the fact that they will never get to hold or love her and that her father was the one to end her life before it even started. So, I do feel for his family as well. Patty Porter is an exceptional woman, I have the utmost respect and admiration for her and do believe that she will do her best to raise Blake to maybe one day forgive his father.

First off let me say- I am a white woman who has never dated and/or had a intimate relationship with a black man.... Yet here are my opinion----
First I feel very bad for the davis and cutts families--nobody deserves to go thru this tragic ordeal----
however, I do not feel Jessie was a choir girl---didnt she go to Bobbie's house when the wife was gone and left her undies in the wife's jewelry box???--- I do not think it takes a brain surgeon to conclude that was tacky and shows Jesse was into drama and was fueling a already bad situation -- she did not seem to care about what torment she was causing Bobbies wife.
Secondly, I think when Bobbi tried to leave that fateful day she flipped out on him and things got out of control---I do not beleive Bobbi killed her purposly nor did he kill her because she was an inconvenience!!
Thirdly, can somebody please clarify the comment Jessie's sister made regarding her comment to Bobbie --- something to the effect--Bobbie and her ( jessies) father were the only 2 people who ever let her down - yet the father tells bobbie -Dont even look at me and asked the judge if he could have a moment alone with Bobbie
In conclusion---Jessie was in a relationship with a married man - she knew he was married yet she would sleep with Bobbie in his Wifes bed - what was she thinking !!! Bobbi was going to leave his wife ??? I just feel bad for the whole situation but in some ways Jessie put herself in a volitale situation and was fueling it in many ways -- she should not be dead and Bobbie's life should not be ruined

Speaking ill of the dead is tacky!!!!! How dare you!!! i don't care care if she slept with him in front of his wife! did she deserve to be murdered?did her daughter? HELL NO!!!!!

This case would have not been newsworthy if this were a White man killing a Black woman. No one should be murdered for any reason, but common sense dictates that this affair would not have a happy ending. A married man with a mistress having a SECOND child by th at mistress, spells trouble. Where was the motherly and fatherly advice after the first child? At least Jessie's mom got a house out of the ordeal! I wonder if White America would rally and support Bobby's family if they were to get custody of Blake!


P.S. Take a life give a life - execution is in order. Don't waste my tax dollars on murderers of any race when they commit the crime, hide the body, then say it was an accident!

jigsgirl,you are so rite,he could have called 911 but he chose to dipose of the body and also invole someone else, and single well said,

when you cut thru the smoke and mirrors---
*Bobbie- man-ed up otherwise the jury may not have had enough to convict him.
*Patty took some element of responsiblity for her daughters actions-hence the reason she asked the judge to let him out of prison to start a new life someday
*Jessies father is a real work of art - considering one of the sisters told bobbie he was the only man besides her father that treated her badly.
Anybody can read between the lines with all of that said -
This story was not news worthy of practical internal attention !!!

By the way the comment on Feb 28, 2008 | 4:10 PM from jigsgirl--- wake up and quit being so naieve -

walsue...I am not the naieve one here, that would be you and clearly you are the only one "reading between the lines". Why do you keep dwelling on the fact that he was married? People make mistakes, I am quite sure that you are not perfect. Wake up and understand that there are many married men that lie and manipulate other woman and then it's to late because the other woman wants to believe he will leave his wife and so on....this is nothing new. You cannot blame Jessie completely, she had one child with him and was pregnant with a second she clearly cared if not loved him and once love is involved very rarely can you think clearly. You think with your emotions not common sense. You also have no clue as to what her parents told her but she was a grown woman who had her own home and was able to make her own decisions. How many adults really take their parents advise, it may be the right thing but it's not what they want to hear.
Yes I really do think Patty is like that. I know people that are really that forgiving and religous and believe that to error is human but to forgive is divine. I highly respect her for how she is handling this whole situation.

IT'S QUITE OBVIUOS JIGSGIRL THAT WE ARE NOT DEALING WITH PEOPLE WITH COMMON SENSE! ALL OF YOUR RESPONSES VERY WELL PUT!! I'M GOING TO LEAVE IT AT THIS NOTHING AND I MEAN NOTHING THAT JESSE DAVIS DID WAS BAD ENOUGH THAT SHE WAS MURDERED, HER DAUGHTER EITHER! AND FOR YOU TO SIT HERE AND CONSTINTENLY INSULT HER AND HER FAMILY IS TACKY TACKY TACKY AND IT SHOWS YOU ARE THE ONE YOUR PARENTS SHOULD OF TAUGHT BETTER!!!!! AND TRYING TO PUT ME DOWN BECAUSE OF MY SITUATION IS IDIOTIC BECAUSE I'M NOT EMBARRASSED BY MY SITUATION IT'S THE WAY IT IS AND I'M DEALING WITH IT AND IF I THOUGHT FOR A MINUTE THAT I COULDN'T HANDLE THE COMMENTS THAT I'VE RECIEVED SINCE EXPOSING MY LIFE THEN I WOULD OF NEVER POSTED IT SOOOOO SO MUCH FOR TRYING TO MAKE ME FEEL BAD!!!!