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W T F?

khsl1 - This is what happens when you blog - all the smart arses come out of the woodwork!
But, I sense that you are a young girl (teenager)? I remember what it is like to have a crush on someone who is clueless as to your feelings.
You can come out and express your feelings to your friend. If your friend is NOT interested in you in the same way, you may run the risk of losing the friendship. This is a decision you have to make. Say something and risk losing the friendship - Say nothing, preserve the friendship, and HOPE he makes the next move.
Sometimes there are indicators that the other person is interested. Do you catch him looking at you when you turn your head? Does he buy you gifts or bring you flowers? Does he tease you? Does he call you on the phone a LOT?
(I'm assuming you are a girl by the avatar).
It also may help to go to google or Ask.com and see what information you can find about "Teen Relationships". Or go to your library and pick up books on this subject. I'm sure some Pediatrician or Child Psychologist has written books that may help give you some answers.
Good Luck!

my suggestion to you honey is talk to your mom. My mom was always good for stuff like this and now that I'm a mom and have grown up I see that she was always right.

Girlscout is absolutly correct in what she said about running the risk of losing his freindship by telling him and unfortunatly if you don't lose his friendship it will never be the same as it is now, because it will be strange for him knowing how you feel when he doesn't return the feelings. And yes look for signs like the one's girlscout mentioned as well as when you two hang out does he look at other girls or talk about other girls to you? That's one of the hardest situations to be in and alot of us have been there, but this has to be a decision that you make on your own, you have to do what you think is best. Your young and this is not going to be your first or last crush, I will give you this to think about, at your age the chances of a relationship working out and lasting forever are pretty much non existant, so do you really think that giving up your freindship with this boy for a relationship that may last a few months and when it does end, your left with no boyfriend or best friend is worth it? I've been there baby I know it hurts and is confusing, just think about it. this to shall pass.

Talk to your mom.

Sofa...leave her alone! if you had daughters would you be that rude. I'm glad she's asking for advice.

kh....ignore the men....unfortunalty as they get older sometimes they don't get much smarter.

thanks guys and when we are in school we walk to lunch toget her and we hug and he sometimes is looking and he does tease me sometimes. thanks this should help but can the men just stay out for now you are being rude.

Yes dear.

...And as macho as men like to be, I have seen in my years of experience on this earth, that men are terrible at handling break-ups, divorces, etc. Most people I know that have broken-up or divorced - the man always took it harder. There tough on the outside, but soft on the inside!

jigsgirl,u were rite on target about men dont get smater, girlscout,i thougt that saying went"can live with men,and can't shoot them lol, oh yeah men are big babies when they are sick,but also they can be big teddy bears,on the inside,