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The 16 year old girl who "allegedly" suffocated her infant son with a Teddy Bear, is being held without bail at Framingham.  GOOD!  Your old enough to make a baby.  Your old enough to "allegedly" kill said baby.  Your old enough to do the time with the big girls.  She now says she was cohorsed into doing it.  Her live-in boy friend (who is not the father of the baby) with his neatly manicured eyebrows and baseball cap tilted perfectly to the side says he would have heard this event taking place.  He claims he's a light sleeper and no way she could have done this without him knowing.  Well maybe he knew?  The only crime this little baby committed was that it was sick and crying and this baby herself  couldn't handle it.  The law will take it's course and I say again, you want to play like a big girl you pay like a big girl!  BTW, Happy 17th Birthday.....

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Chip read my blog view my photos
Dec 3, 2008 | 9:27 AM

How sad is this. You're right, there need to be consequences, and the consequences have to be draconian....

But how sad is this....

JuneInMA read my blog view my photos
Dec 3, 2008 | 10:04 AM

I have to say, I was a little disturbed that this CHILD has her boyfriend living with her in and sleeping in her bed. The fact that he's not the baby's father (I didn't know this before) makes it even worse! It's bad enough she got pregnant so young, but WHY is this guy who is not her husband (not like she decided to get married young) sleeping in her bed every night? How is this condoned??!!!

I understand less and less every day.

Chip read my blog view my photos
Dec 3, 2008 | 10:42 AM

No, June...you understand everything that successful people need to understand....I applaud you for not accepting it.

JuneInMA read my blog view my photos
Dec 3, 2008 | 11:58 AM

Thank you, Chip, and while you may be right, I understand less and less what goes through people's heads. At only 16, I'm sure she's not living by herself which means her parents or guardians are condoning this. She may even be pregnant again because, well, that IS what happens when kids who do not know better are allowed to sleep together every night. I am so confused by this!

Chip read my blog view my photos
Dec 3, 2008 | 1:19 PM

At 16 a girl knows that sex is the proximate cause of pregnancy. Unfortunately for our unborn, society's belief that people shouldnot experience the consequences of their behavior has created a world where the unprepared bear the unwanted unchallenged.

So...So sad. Not for the poarents but for the children. Every child deserves to be wanted...

JuneInMA read my blog view my photos
Dec 3, 2008 | 1:32 PM

Very sad!

jonsmom read my blog view my photos
Dec 3, 2008 | 2:13 PM

Word has it she IS pregnant again. And it's been said that when she was eight years old her three month old brother was suffocated. I think they're trying to make us believe that she killed him as well. Could be.
June,
You're right about this whole living together thing being condoned by somebody. It is a parent's job to be a parent. Obviously this little girl has had one strang upbringing. I feel sorry for that poor baby that was killed but I feel sorry for this young mother as well. Nobody set any standards for this girl. What a shame.

Xantun read my blog view my photos
Dec 3, 2008 | 2:21 PM

June, I'm with you on not understanding how this girl is living the way she does. At 16, there's no way my grandparents would have condoned ANY of that. Hell, to this day, my grandmother still wouldn't condone "playing house" with someone like that. (At one point we had both my brother and his girlfriend staying with us. They slept in separate rooms the whole time. House rules)

jonsmom, I'm guessing this is going to be a long drawn-out story. Hopefully people pick up on the moral of it though!

fenwaydav read my blog view my photos
Dec 3, 2008 | 2:23 PM

Ladies, What's that old expression..."The Apple doesn't fall from the tree". No excuse, but only God knows what she grew up in. Her trip to Framingham may be a reunion. I hate to say this, but that poor baby may be better off.

JuneInMA read my blog view my photos
Dec 3, 2008 | 2:59 PM

I totally agree, folks! It IS very sad that this young mother/CHILD is in this situation. Fact is kids learn what they are taught. She was not given the moral background to help her along in life. Condoning the live in boyfriend is proof. Very sad. Sad for that poor baby that died, sad for that young mother whose life will now be totally different.

Xan, my grandmother is the same way. Adult children that live in their own homes can do what they want, but when in her home, unwed children will sleep separately. PERIOD.

kayleisnana read my blog view my photos
Dec 4, 2008 | 11:57 PM

There was a story in the Worcester Telegram this morning, written by Dianne Williamson, that explains an awful lot about this young girl's life. It really is quite sad. Apparently her mother has had mental illness issues for many years, and as an 8 year old, this young girl was left to care for her two younger brothers, one of whom was only 3 months old, while the mother was away. The 3 month old happened to die while in her care. This girl has never had any guidance! I don't know how I feel about this whole situation--I am extremely confused--I absolutely do not condone any of the behaviors taking place in the home; I am deeply saddened by this poor baby's death, and I am truly distressed by this poor young girl's sad life! If she did kill her son, she should, without a doubt, be punished to the fullest extent of the law. If she did not, and the death truly was the result of the baby's illness that he was being treated for, then, this poor girl needs something she has NEVER had--someone to show her love and compassion, and a lot of guidance!!!! If any of you get the chance, read the piece in the Worcester Telegram.

fenwaydav read my blog view my photos
Dec 5, 2008 | 6:27 AM

Hi Donna, I found and read that article you refer to. Very sad indeed. I may have been a little harsh, but now it opens the possibility that she killed her little brother 8 years ago. Her living situation with all those family members and others should not have been allowed to go on. Local authorities have to take some blame also. Unfortunately, Prison may prove to be the place where she gets the help she long needed. Very tragic....

kayleisnana read my blog view my photos
Dec 5, 2008 | 10:07 PM

Hi, Dave,
No, I don't think you were too harsh. You were going by what you had heard. I probably would have been saying pretty much the same as you had if I hadn't read Diane Williamson's column. It could be a very strange coincidence that her baby brother really did die from sids and her own child was more ill than he was being treated for. If I am not mistaken, he was being treated for asthma, and my own personal experience with that, I can say it can be very dangerous, even deadly, if not treated properly. We also have to take inexperience and immaturity into account. And, yes, a very very sad situation.

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It's just me and Daisy and that's fine with me. Old Nu Yawker that's been here about 30 years. Gay and very happy......Registered Democrat that has crossed party lines many time.

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