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by ebonyeyes1 from kent,ohio

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What's going on with all the racial tension on these blogs? Why can't we all have a civilized debate about  different issues without it turning into a black white thing! I have been on several blogs and even when the topic dosen't concern a race issue it always seems to turn into a race issue!! And i know we all have our own views but there have been some really ignorant statements made here recently and I as a black woman don't appreciate it!!! And i do realize there has been alot of crime lately and alot of it at the hands of  african americans, but really you cannot generalize a entire race by a few bad apples!! And i personally feel like we are going backwards instead of forward we are supposed to be learning from the past not repeating it!!! And again i repeat that everyone does have an opinion and you are intitled to it, but do some of you people realize just how ignorant you sound when you statements such as "why don't you get in a ring and kill each other maybe crime will go down" that's unbelievable that someone even posted that bs!!! We are living in a world where there is so much hatred for another race it makes me sick!! My daughter is going to kindergarten where she may be the only african american in her school, however i did see some bi-racial kids, but i have to be concerned that she is not going to be mistreated because of her race. And i'm not sayin that it would be done intentionally but it's ashame that it has to be an issue!! Maybe if we all started now we can raise a future society to respect and love one another regardless of the color of their skin. Children are so impressionable and they follow by example if we continue to live in a world of hate then we are teaching our children that it's ok to hate.The same goes with the crime issue teach your children right from wrong and give them some guidance don't just let them loose in the streets because we all see what happens when the streets raise our children, violence, murder, and just complete disregard for human life including their own!!! Us as parents definetly need to be more involved in our childrens life because they are our future and they need good role models. There was even a teacher on here saying why should he have to be a role model when he's off the clock??? excuse me your a TEACHER and it's not just a job but a lifestyle and if you don't want to be a role model for children then you probably shouldn't be a teacher. And this bothers, me how many other teachers out there don't care if children look up to them, i want my daughter to be able to look up to her teacher, police officer, fireman, or any person in the community that's supposed to care about people.That's all i have to say for now but i'm sure i'll have more to say later i just had to write this blog because it seemed like i was leaving so many comments on different pages i needed somewhere to vent.

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polarbear_88 read my blog view my photos
Sep 1, 2007 | 5:41 PM

Very well put! Most of the problem here is that roll Johnny Miranda and Pablo Kielbasa. His racist posts are nothing new and he's usually the one to make another topic into a race issue. He/she/it cannot be reasoned with. All he does is say you are wrong and insult you. I do agree that we are taking steps back. I look ate the callender and can't believe we still have this many ignorant people in 2007! When a person says they hate a group of people or post racist comments, they look like a damn fool! I wish they could see how stupid they look. Check out Gorbash's archived posts about the Jena 6. I can't believe this happened in 2006/2007(but it was in the south)

http://community.myfoxcleveland.com/blogs/gorbash81/200
7/08/23/Jena

ebonyeyes1 read my blog
Sep 1, 2007 | 6:52 PM

i read gorbash's blog and i was very grateful for him letting people know what's going on. and i already know about that pablo guy i don't respond to anything he says. I just got so fed up with all the name calling and racist remarks i felt i had to say something. We are all adults here and should be able to have a discussion without it turning into a racist war of words!!And for all the narrow minded people who may have something ignorant to say to me i will delete your comments and not because i don't think you have the right to your comments but because i don't want your ignorance to infect other people because you know ignorance is contagious!!

Wardegajjbbw read my blog
Sep 2, 2007 | 6:29 PM

I am a white female with 3 children.You are so right it shouldn't be a race issue. It should be no matter what color you are take responsibility and teach your kids. Parents need to quit allowing the streets to raise their kids and do it themselves.

gorbash81 read my blog view my photos
Sep 3, 2007 | 12:43 PM

There is an inordinate amount of right wing fascism on this site and among the Republican party in general.

Homophobia is on the rise in the Conservative movement

Xenophobia is on the rise in the Conservative movement

and Miltancy and Jingoism is on the rise in the Conservativre movement.

The problem is that it is now considered cool to hate gays, immigrants, muslims, blacks, and so on on TV and Radio, because most media is now controlled by the Republican party.

ebonyeyes1 read my blog
Sep 3, 2007 | 12:44 PM

ok dick let me see saying you would KILL your daughter if she dated a black guy ABSOLUTELY makes you a racist!!! What if he was a perfect gentleman with a good job and truly cared about your daughter and provided her with the finer things in life treated her well, what if he was the perfect one for her would you still dissaprove because he's black?? if you do then guess what..... you're a racist!!! The point that you seemed to have missed is not that you should listen to our music and dance with us, but simply understand that we are all people good, bad, or indifferent,we stiil need to set examples for our children so they don't grow up in a world of hate, our parents did but we don't have to but it seems that it's coming down to that. I've never had it in my heart to hate anybody and it just baffles my mind that people can hate a whole race because of "some".

gorbash81 read my blog view my photos
Sep 3, 2007 | 1:24 PM

dick_berger is a Conservative Republican

ebonyeyes1 read my blog
Sep 3, 2007 | 2:46 PM

bleep me? thats exactly the response i expected from you, you're more than welcome to have your narrow minded opinions like i said before but they won't stay on this blog! thank you for your "opinion" have a blessed day!!!

Wernerd630 read my blog view my photos
Sep 3, 2007 | 3:24 PM

lol!

spike717
Sep 3, 2007 | 3:44 PM

Unfortunately there will always be ignorant people who have to spew their racist BS.If we can somehow realize we are all in this together we will be better people.

karlHubrath read my blog
Sep 3, 2007 | 7:14 PM

Thank you for your pot ebonyeyes1. I have also found that people discriminate against people with mental illnesses. I truly feel that those people or rather most of them have low self esteem and attempt to put others down to make themselves feel better. I also feel that some of them are afraid of the things that they don't know anything about, they are not educated and they don't want to learn. I think that the most educated thing that I can add is why skin color is different, I hope that we all know this, right? God bless and have a great day.

watchman read my blog
Sep 3, 2007 | 10:37 PM

To Ebonyeyes1:
Good post, however do not let ignorance get to you. On some of these posts I respond so that the person may see just how close minded they are. Re: your daughter, I feel that she will be o.k. with race relations with the other kids in grade school. Some of the separation comes about when they reach jr. high. Racial hatred is taught, and in a lot of cases by the parents. Case in point, during Army basic
training I was a squad leader. One of the troops was from Kentucky and as first would't talk to any of the black's in the platoon. Towards the end of basic training he started to talk to me and two days before the end of training he told me that his father taught him that blacks were beneath him, that we were no good and a number of other things. He saw that what his father had taught him was not true and he was having a hard time having to face him with the truth. I just told him to learn from the experiences that he had and not to argue with his father but to see things with a clear eye. The thing that got to me the most was that he grew up in a cabin with a dirt floor and still used a outhouse at home when I had the good life compared to him. The point is this has been going on for a long time, so we just have to continue to abide by the golden rule. If you have noticed young children in a group, they tend to play together whereever they are. They don't know about hate or even the difference of color. Just will you play with me.
Peace

polarbear_88 read my blog view my photos
Sep 4, 2007 | 2:57 AM

Well written and true, watchman. Racism and hatred is a bad habit and it needs to be stopped. Parents teach kids racism and if the kids go along with it, they are racist and end up teaching it to their children. It scares me to think some of the bloggers that post these inappropriate comments might have children plus all the people we don't know about. Honestly, I don't think about race. I like to get to know the person and see how they are. I can't even find the words to describe how stupid ad ignorant racism sounds. To say you hate a person who is a certain religion or race without even knowing them is absolutely stupid. I feel sorry for people who judge others. What a sad, empty life they live.

lovelyhoney read my blog
Sep 4, 2007 | 10:09 AM

Rock6230:

Did you not get anything that Ebonyeyes said? You're no better than Johnny Miranda and Pablo.

Take the country over? How about taking over inner-city communities first and getting rid of the criminal element like the low-down dirty dogs that killed that precious, innocent 12 year old girl this week.

schannel read my blog view my photos
Sep 4, 2007 | 10:58 AM

Ebonyeyes, Why don't you read YungRolo09 profile, it will show you in every letter the amount of ignorance most blacks have.

lovelyhoney read my blog
Sep 4, 2007 | 11:30 AM

LOL!

schannel: You're too much!

Sweep around your own "IGNORANT" door before sweeping around someone elses. IGNORANCE apparently IS "bliss" for you.

schannel read my blog view my photos
Sep 4, 2007 | 1:49 PM

lovelyhoney: just giving you a nice, easy, PRIME EXAMPLE... also, I'm welcome to "sweep" around anyone's door I choose, that's MY RIGHT...and you may think I'm ignorant, that's your choice but my parents made sure my butt was in school everyday so that I would be able to read, write, & type this comment to you. HA HA

lovelyhoney read my blog
Sep 4, 2007 | 1:53 PM

Ebonyeyes - God Bless You, don't despair!

You must learn that “racism” is a part of the American fabric. It is not going to go away. But you know WHO you are. But even more, you need to know WHO you are culturally as well and not fall victim to some form of self-loathing and self-hatred. I don’t know why you have your daughter in an all-white learning environment, but you might want to reconsider and find a more diverse setting for her. She deserves and needs to interact with peers from her own culture as well.

I applaud you for your upfront & honest comments, but don’t run away from discussing race. Refusing to discuss the race issue is not going to make it go away. Confront it head on, just like you did now. And don’t be afraid to confront and counter racists like Pablo, schannel, Miranda, etc...ALTHOUGH I AGREE WITH MOST OF THE WRITERS – they deserve to be ignored. But also, It doesn’t make YOU a racist to give them a dose of their own rhetoric.

For example - don’t allow racists to use the “criminal element” to stereotype YOU or your race. As I said in one of my earlier blogs – I don’t care what the percentages are, white people commit entirely too much crime to be trying to use it to stereotype people (I got called a racist for pointing that out). The "white criminal element" isn’t used to stereotype white people – don’t allow racist people to do likewise to African-Americans.

You noted that African Americans have been in the news for committing crimes. What does that have to do with you, me and millions of other law-abiding African-Amer

lovelyhoney read my blog
Sep 4, 2007 | 1:54 PM

Lovelyhoneye...Continued

You noted that African Americans have been in the news for committing crimes. What does that have to do with you, me and millions of other law-abiding African-Americans? We’re not criminals—and we shouldn’t put up with the rhetoric that tries to categorize US as such. And, my dear, what news have you been watching lately? The hideous crimes of Caucasian Americans have been in the news as well. They’re just treated as “isolated incidents” versus a part of society’s ills.

Also, if you ever have the time, take a multi-culturual history course or an African-American History course. You’ll learn that all cultures go through violent transitional phases…and that is just what the African-American culture is going through. But we have to confront it – just like we confronted segregation, racism, and the Klan in the 50s and 60s, even if it means taking on our own.

lovelyhoney read my blog
Sep 4, 2007 | 1:58 PM

schannel:

LOL - YOU WENT TO SCHOOL? Thanks for the laugh!

dragonfly07 read my blog
Sep 4, 2007 | 3:10 PM

"My daughter is going to kindergarten where she may be the only african american in her school, however i did see some bi-racial kids, but i have to be concerned that she is not going to be mistreated because of her race."

Ok so it's ok for you to sterotype all non african americans? In our childs school there are very few African Americans and everyone plays with them and I've seen them on their parents days or school spirit days etc.. when a child wins a race they all run up and hug them, give them high fives etc. no matter what race or religion they are.

I don't think you'd like it if I'd said "My child is going to a school that they are one of a couple caucasian kids I'm afraid they will be treated badly." If that statement was made we'd be jumped on immediatly on how wrong/racist it was to say that. Heck I'll probably get jumped on anyways.

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ebonyeyes1

I am a mother of 1 daughter 5 years old. Pretty much my life consist of working and trying to provide a stable loving home for my daughter.Protecting her is my main focus in life! I pretty much get along with everyone i come in contact with. I respect people as long as they respect me and i respect other opinions no matter how much i disagree.

Member Since: 8/8/2007