Feb 21, 2007 | 10:46 AM
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News
I just need to vent about the child support system in OH: why is it that the noncustodial parent is not obligated to assist with the care of child throughout their college career? It's already sad enough that 1/2 the men don't do their part, getting jobs that pay under the table to avoid taking care of children they helped create, feeling that childsupport covers all the needs of the child and therefore refusing to contribute anything else. . . it's sad! As a single parent, it scares me to know that when my boys turn 18 there will be no assistance from their fathers. My oldest son's father is the most selfish person I know: he blatantly stated that since he doesn't believe in higher education he refuses to help my son attain it! I realize that not all kids go to college and for those that don't, the noncustodial parent should not have to support beyond 18. But for those that want more for their lives, as I did, parents should be obligated until the age of 21/22(max). How am I as a single parent to send my child to school? How do others cope when a parent refuses to "do their part"? I'm looking for suggestions, support, advice, anything! I want to hear from single parents, married parents, financial advisors, politicians . . . anyone with a voice/opinion on this issue. Thanks!
Feb 15, 2007 | 10:13 AM
Category:
Entertainment
Isn't it funny (not ha-ha, but more peculiar) what a difference 365 days makes? A year ago today, I was head over heels in love with someone that I thought would never leave my side. Today, I cry everytime I see him or hear his voice. While he has proven to be a wonderful friend, it doesn't make my pain any easier to bear. Time continues to change according to the clock, the calendar . . . our bodies, yet and still, how true it is that there is nothing new under the sun! Heartache will always remain, lovers will always come and go. The pain that I feel over the loss of my love is universal. I'd like to hear how others made it through after losing the one that they truly believed would be "the one I'd make love to the first time for the very last time". How do you mend when someone who treated you better then anyone you've ever known decides to leave? In June, it will be one whole year since my relationship ended. By that time, I want to be able to feel different than what I feel right now.
Feb 13, 2007 | 10:18 PM
Category:
Entertainment
Tomorrow is that "famous" holiday for lovers. I, unfortunatley, am one of many individuals who will be without a "love" to receive gifts from. A radio show today commented on the depression that befalls many women on this dreaded, day before "D-Day". Many callers expressed the fear that because they are so often alone on this day which is honored by those in love, that maybe they will end up alone forever. I can't lie, I've wondered the same thing. But then I snapped back to reality. . . even if I never get married, is my life any less fulfilling or less important than the woman who does? I have great family, great kids, great friends. . . I've travelled and achieved alot with my education. . . what's wrong with my life? I say nothing, outsiders may say everything.
