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by Ellak from everywhere

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I would like to share a bit of my life with you. My name is Ellak, some of you already know me but not my family. I was born in Cleveland in the mid 60’s, I have a beautiful wife and two wonderful children ages six & 10. I also have a Mother and Father I’m very lucky to have and I will tell you why. To do that I have to start with my grandparents that I never met. You see, I never met them because they were murdered while they lived in Budapest, Hungary. During World War 2, they were taken captive along with my Father by Nazi’s. They were put in a death camp for being nothing more then Jewish. My Grandparents were starved and lined up against a wall then shot in the head. My father a young child was still a prison slave, his job was to drag his parents dead bodies, My Grandparents to the oven were their bodies were burned to ashes. My father then was made to mix their ashes along with other Jews in tar to be spread on the ground to make roadways to kill more Jews. A few months later, the war ended and the Americans came and freed the remaining Jews along with my Father. This is where and when he met my mother. They were given over to the American Red Cross where they were sheltered, fed and clothed. They were offered the opportunity to come to America and become American citizens. They jumped at the opportunity for the land of opportunity, only to find more hardship. They came through Ellis Island N.Y. to find Jews were nothing more then trash and just another homless mouth to feed in a already strained economy. They lived were they could and ate what they could. They ate scraps and canned cat or dog food whenever someone would toss them some change. They eventually found a sponsor here in Cleveland that would house them long enough to get on their feet. They found it difficult to find work or bank loans to help them buy a house.  Nobody wanted a Jew in the “Nationhood”. They must of felt hate at the world, Yet they never complained. Instead they channeled that anger into motivation to get their lives back, and they eventually did. They got married and had me. They always reminded me of what they went through growing up and vowed to never let it happen to me. They always taught me the ugliness and cruelty of racism, and to never feel sorry for yourself, No one cares about how you got here, just where you go in life.  They eventually started a small business selling clothing my mother & father found or was given and brought them back to life to sell, assuming that would be the only way to find money from lack of jobs due to the hatred of Jews.  The business grew and they did well for themselves. It gave me a life I can’t complain about. They always told me never show your hatred for others. Instead always keep your head high with pride and show those who hate you and want to see you fail, you can overcome and prevail. The best revenge in life is proving you are capable of achieving what others want you to fail. Your Grandparents Died as slaves so you can live, never forget that, no one else will care, so I never forgot. I married my wife who most may call her a minority, I call her my life and savior. We had two kids and here I am telling you my story. I lived through true racism in my family. I would never want to see another family go through what mine did. Regardless of race or origin. Young Americans today feel they are discriminated against At times they blame me along with others, only because of skin color, it is all they know about me. Needless to say I’m shocked when it happens. I say to whoever feels discriminated against to remember my story and racism will not bring you down but make you strong. Be that success you know you can be. No one cares where you came from, only where you are going. And if you had slaves in your family heritage such as I did, don’t let them down! They died as slaves so you can live, be proud and succeed. Live the life they died for so you can succeed and make them proud as they look down apone you. Put hate aside and channel it into motivation, make yourself and your forefathers proud. Racism everyone hates! So lead the way and never play the racist racial game. The title to this Post is Should I be a Racist? The answer is No way! Nor should you. Please have a happy New Year and remember what it signifies. Another year of Your freedom to succeed.
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Imagineflowers read my blog view my photos
Jan 4, 2008 | 2:08 PM

Racism everyone hates!
Not everyone.

dasvics read my blog view my photos
Jan 4, 2008 | 10:32 PM

Hi Ellak, thanks for saying something nice, I love our country, I support our troops, and I am patriotic, but that group of racists has been pestering me for months and I can't take it anymore, so I'm speaking out against them. There are a bunch of racists over on that site. You will be able to tell who they are. I hate racism and I wont tolerate it. I don't condone illegal activity of any kind and I think we've discussed all this before, but I wanted you to know why it is that I'm upset with those people. It's only about six of them. Everyone else is incredibly nice and able to discuss any issue, without hatred or racism.

Have a goodnight :-)

dasvics read my blog view my photos
Jan 4, 2008 | 10:37 PM

"Should I be a Racist? The answer is No way! Nor should you. Please have a happy New Year and remember what it signifies. Another year of Your freedom to succeed."

I couldn't possibly agree more. That was a beautiful story, thank you for sharing it :-)

dasvics read my blog view my photos
Jan 4, 2008 | 10:41 PM

Imagineflowers
Jan 4, 2008 | 11:08 AM
Racism everyone hates!
Not everyone.

No, apparently not you. Unbelievable.

wow, they're not even ashamed to admit it anymore. It's like they're rubbing it in our faces and laughing at the fact that we're not picking up on it. What are you doing here imagineflowers? Not enough people to harass over at the LA blogs so you come here? You're pathetic. Ellak, this person is one of them.

CAKhomelodge read my blog view my photos
Jan 5, 2008 | 9:03 PM

ellak, I read your story, I am so sorry. I wrote to you but you didn't get it it seems. I think it is important to tell your story, 1 to honour your grandparents & parents, 2 to honour all those who lost their lives by hatred & predjudice thru the nazi's.3. to reveal truth.those who are racists have no vision, heart or faith. they are small pitiful lost souls.

Ellak read my blog view my photos
Jan 6, 2008 | 12:00 AM

Cakhomelodege;

Sorry, I must have missed it. Thank you, I wrote my history more to show people we all have more in common then people think when it comes to people and racism. I’m glad you took the time to read it, once again thanks to you and all who left kind comments.

CAKhomelodge read my blog view my photos
Jan 6, 2008 | 7:20 PM

I am trying to leave comments but for some reason they don't show up. I agree we do all have common ground. I do hope we can become friends. Numbers 6:24-27. I pray Yaweh brings healing to your heart & soul.

Ellak read my blog view my photos
Jan 8, 2008 | 7:53 PM

Cakhomelodege;

Tanks again, I wonder what the problem is with the comments? It seems as of they are getting through. Thank you again for the kind words and I hope to be friends with you also just the same. Sorry I haven't replied faster but my father had a mild heart attack last week wednesday (nothing to worry about now, he's fine)I've been running around spreading myself thin with work, my mother, father, kids and wife! not enough hours in the day it seems lately! Hows everything goin back at fox cleveland? hope your making good friends, Most of the ones I made have long gone, not the way it use to be up to a few months ago. Seems if you are not part of the new click opinions don't matter. not my style for debate. but their are still a some good people over there you should have fun. I hope all is well and hope to hear from you soon. have a great day

CAKhomelodge read my blog view my photos
Jan 8, 2008 | 8:07 PM

so good to hear from you. Sorry to hear about your father, I will keep your family in my prayers. yes I do like the blogs & the people, they mean well, they are funny, witty, knowledgeable & good hearted, a few who are not...but you have to take the bad with the good. resist the devil & he will flee from you, so I will stand against what I believe to bw wrong. take care my new friend. God bless.
this is no.2 comment-1st got lost

caseyjones38 read my blog view my photos
Jan 9, 2008 | 12:46 AM

Ellak - I haven`t talked with you for a while. When I first started blogging we were butting heads. Then you shared your` life`s story with me, and I understood where you were coming from. Now, I feel we are good friends. I`m delighted to see you share this story with everybody. I`m also sorry to hear about your` father. I wish him the best, and he is in my` prayers. I hope the coming year brings lots of happiness and good fortune to you and your` family.

Ellak read my blog view my photos
Jan 9, 2008 | 11:25 AM

Thanks you guys and I miss you too Casey! I'm just finding it hard to deal with all the bashing going on everytime I post something! Maybe if I leave for a while everything will calm down and the knuckle heads will go away! untill then you be good and leave a message from time to time so that I know you are all doing well. I hope to hear from soon buddy! And your prayers must of worked my father came home yesterday and is feeling fine, Thanks again.

CAKhomelodge read my blog view my photos
Jan 9, 2008 | 2:00 PM

don't let others dictate to you. or control your imput. don't become a stranger. oppisition will always meet you on the road of indifference, so stand strong, face it with courage & the strength of the Lord, and truth. Remember you do not stand alone.
yes prayers do work.glad to hear the good news.

Ellak read my blog view my photos
Jan 9, 2008 | 5:54 PM

Cak; Thanks again, Not to worry my comments were more of and explanation to casey as to where and why I was not around so much. You are correct about not allowing people to dictate, I agree with you. Trust me, that’s not the reason I'm not around there as much anymore. When some new topics come up after awhile I'll start to come back. Right now it's more of the same things we covered many times over. I have seen many people come and go from the site in the near year I was there, I'll wait till a few leave before I come back to save you and many others from people like snickers. (He or she likes to target me). I should be flattered but I'm not, wonder why? Please if I miss any good topics let me know and I'll come a running as fast as I can! I promise. Hope you all are having a wonderful day and thanks for kind words for my Pop. I told him what you guys said He sends his thanks as I. Nice to see good people such as you are coming to the site now.

Casey;
What’s new with you lately? How’s everything going? When you get a chance, try to get us a couple of tickets on that 747 we always talk about! I’ll be waiting. Oh and make sure it’s to a nice warm place with palm trees and ocean if they give you a choice ok?

caseyjones38 read my blog view my photos
Jan 10, 2008 | 1:29 AM

Hey, Ellak ! that sounds great to me ! I`m relieved to hear your` dad is better. Don`t let the "sour grapes"run you off. We`re behind you buddy. Stay safe .

LATINAWOMAN read my blog view my photos
Jan 14, 2008 | 2:13 PM

Ellak , beautiful blog . Thank you for sharing . You are an inspiration .

caseyjones38 read my blog view my photos
Jan 17, 2008 | 7:24 PM

Ellak - Just checking on you. You really haven`t missed much here. Same old dog fight. I hope this finds you and your`s in good health and spirits. - Shalom

Ellak read my blog view my photos
Jan 18, 2008 | 3:44 PM

Hello Casey!

How’s everything? I'm doing just fine and hope the same with you and the Gang. Maybe one day I will come back after the Nazis go away! Until then you are right, I bet that it is the same old dog fights. Good luck and stay away from the dogs, some may carry rabies. I hope everything is going well with you and it is sure real nice to hear from you. How’s Gorbash, polar and girlscout? I hope all are doing well as you. Please tell them all I say hello and miss them.

caseyjones38 read my blog view my photos
Jan 26, 2008 | 4:28 AM

We`re still missing you Ellak. Do you think you might make a " guest appearance " on someone you trust`s site ? Be safe, my friend.

caseyjones38 read my blog view my photos
Feb 1, 2008 | 10:56 PM

Gorbash is missing in action, PB is kinda` quiet right now, and girlscout just returned from Panama. I hope this finds you well, my` Friend.
Hurry back. We miss ya`.

caseyjones38 read my blog view my photos
Feb 13, 2008 | 9:20 PM

Ellak - I am delighted to hear from you. There are those of us that still ascribe to human values that really miss your` company. This site is still the same old dog eat dog rat race. I hope this finds you and yours` in good health and spirits. I miss you, my` friend. Keep in touch.
Casey

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Ellak

42Yr Old Married Father of 2 Retired Navy.

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